We filled it with a large collection of conkers, some autumnal magazine images and a stuffed robin to begin with. Since then Little C. has been busy collecting leaves, acorns, twigs and other bits and pieces from the outdoors while we have been out walking the waggy-tailed one!
Sunday, 31 October 2010
A "Treasure Box" can be whatever you make it. Up until quite recently ours has been filled with bits and pieces and odds and ends from around the house for Little C to explore and play with whenever he feels the inclination. From a padlock and keys and scented cushions through to ribbons and pastry cutters. Every few weeks I've tidied out the box and changed the contents. This time around I thought I'd go for an "autumn box" to celebrate the bounty and beauty of the season.
Wednesday, 27 October 2010
These are the ones that set you apart from the other mummies, the ones your children will remember and treasure and ultimately the ones that will unlock your toddler's creative side...
- Sand and water play – This is fairly self-explanatory. We have a home-made sand tray (from two grow-bag trays) which is under cover but outdoors so that it can be used in any weather, and for water play we either use the paddling pool on the lawn or the bath. He's also now big enough that he can reach the kitchen sink with his steps and is quite happy splashing about in there for 15 minutes. I sometimes give him his cups and bowls to wash at the same time.
- Messy play – You can't go wrong with a bit of mess - in moderation! I like to get out the messy stuff and either put it out in the garden or on the kitchen floor (weather dependent), remove most of Little C's clothes and let him get on with it for a short time, then I transfer him straight to the bath for some "water play"! I tend to put the messy stuff in the redundant baby bath, and give him some spoons, jugs, cups, funnels and so on. Things I have used are porridge oats (with or without water), dry or cooked rice, dry or cooked pasta, jelly, flour and water, cornflour and water and a little food colouring. I always tell him whether it's okay to eat whatever he is playing with.
- Noisy play - You could let them play with drums, maracas, shakers and other noisy toys all day long. If, however, this is more than your nerves can take, then keep the noisy things separate in their own basket and bring them out for a half hour "noisy play" session every day or two. The novelty will make your children enjoy the toys more; and knowing that there's a time limit will help your sanity and make you more likely to interact positively and join in with the fun!
Thursday, 21 October 2010
There's a third part still to come on this post. These suggestions are the ones for cosy afternoons when you need a breather and can just sit down and enjoy being with your toddler.
- Looking at books – We go to the library every couple of weeks and also have our own collection of books. We have a couple of books in most rooms in the house and the rest are in Little C’s bedroom. He'll wander through there, pull all the books off the shelf to find the one he wants, then sit down in a big pile of books and peruse to his heart's content. Occasionally he'll want to read a book with us, or he'll show us what he's looking at.
- Playing with toys – We don't have that many compared to other young families we know, but considerably more than we need! We have a few out in the sitting room, and the rest in boxes or baskets in Little C's bedroom and we rotate them around to maintain interest. I'll occasionally get something out and set it out in an interesting way so that when he gets up from his nap he gets a surprise and is inspired to play.
- Drawing – We have wax crayons and a drawing book. He is beginning to figure out how to make marks with the crayons but still prefers to eat them or throw them on the floor. Still, it's nice to get them out for half an hour every day or two.
- Watching TV – Here in the UK we are lucky to have CBeebies, a BBC channel specially designed for pre-schoolers and with no commercials! We actually don't watch much TV in the day, we are too busy. Little C does have a favourite DVD which we watch for 10 minutes a couple of times a week.
Monday, 18 October 2010
I was looking at this new blog and wondering how to improve it. I have come up with the following, which should improve the quality of the blog, and then once I've developed that a bit better, I can look at how to increase the traffic visiting the blog.
What do I want out of this blog?
- showcase my writing so that any potential publishers or clients who see the link to it on the bottom of my e-mail, or who happen upon it, get a realistic idea of the standard of my writing.
- share inspirations and creative ideas with other like-minded individuals. Once the blog starts to get more traffic, and I work out how to get "searched" then I'll also hopefully appear on search engines when people are searching for information or ideas.
How to improve the blog:
- Keep it brief. Work to a word limit - I'm thinking 350 words to keep things succinct and stop myself waffling.
- Stick to a time limit. I don't want to spend all my time preparing and writing posts either, so I'll stick to a time limit of 30 minutes per day to read, prepare, find images, write and edit posts.
- Include four images with each post.
- Read through at least once before "preview" and again at least once before "publish".
- Try not to write too much about us, though family and friends might be interested I guess - but I should try to be more informative instead.
Any more ideas on how I can improve things please do add a comment!
Thursday, 14 October 2010
Following on from my post the other day about things to do with your toddler out and about, here are some ideas of things to do indoors. I see the question posted up quite often on the parenting forum that I'm a member of, usually from mums who usually work and are spending a week of holiday with their little one, and can't fathom how to keep them occupied all day long...
...here are a few ideas (in fact I have so many that I'm going to split this post in half and put the rest on next time):
- Sleep - don't underestimate the power of regular scheduled nap times. A well rested toddler is much more likely to settle to an activity, much less likely to moan and groan and demand and fuss, and much less likely to whirl around the house like a hyperactive poltergeist. Somewhere between 12 and 18 months toddlers will drop their morning nap, but nearly all will be sleeping for at least an hour in the early afternoon.
- Eating - allow plenty of time to feed and clean up a toddler and make meal times as relaxing as possible. Little tummies empty quite quickly, so as well as breakfast, lunch and dinner, you'll want to offer snacks mid-morning and mid-afternoon (once they get up from their nap is a good time). Include them in the meal preparation if possible, get them to sit down to eat and drink and at least at meal times, sit down to eat with them at a table.
- Cooking – I'm planning to come back to this one in a future post, but I have a mini-stepladder which Little C climbs up while I'm cooking. I stand behind him so he won't fall and I keep sharp knives and hot things well clear. He gets to help with any mixing, sorting, shaking etc. and in the meantime have a good look, smell and feel of the food we are preparing.
- Housework – This may sound odd, many mums are wondering how to get the housework done when they have a toddler following them around all day, but I've found that giving Little C a small dustpan and brush, duster, broom etc. and encouraging him to "help" I actually get things done. Granted, sometimes it takes a lot longer to clean the windows when he is helping, but at least I'm getting it done, and giving him some good training for the future into the bargain!
- Baking – Much like cooking but as I am not aiming for a particular meal I am in less hurry, so he gets to play with the food and utensils more. I sit him in his high-chair and we work at the kitchen table.
- Painting – We started off doing our painting on the kitchen floor with big sheets of paper, but have also tried the kitchen table and have recently bought an easel. Regardless of how you do it, there will be mess. Little C either tries to eat the paint, or decides halfway through that he needs a cuddle instantly - with paintbrush in hand, or wanders off and if the kitchen door is left open there could be paint anywhere! I don't expect this activity to last for long, he wears a long sleeved apron over his vest (or just a nappy), and I wear something that I don't mind getting paint on which is due a wash. Everything is ready so that as soon as he gets bored we can move him straight into the bath.
- Pottering in the garden – I love this activity and so does Little C. We dress for the weather, so he is either naked or in splash suit and wellies, and occasionally something in between. First I make sure I have cleared up any dog mess, then I get on with whatever job I am doing in the garden and Little C potters about splashing in buckets of water, playing with soil and mud, moving around my plant labels, pulling flowers off plants and so on while I keep one eye on what I am doing and one eye on him to make sure he isn't eating anything I don't think he should. I do bring a couple of his toys out as well, but mostly he prefers to play with the garden.
Monday, 11 October 2010
Little Women has rated for a long time now as my favourite film, the one with Winona Ryder and Susan Sarandon, but I hadn’t read the book for quite a long time. Knowing what a favourite it was with me, C. bought me a nice hardback edition for my birthday.
Firstly, here’s a quick synopsis of the story:
Set against the distant backdrop of the American Civil War, the March family used to have money but have fallen on hard times. The four March girls are: Meg, the eldest, wishing to be grown up and to have fine things; Jo, a creative and vivacious tom-boy who craves adventure and aspires to be a writer; Beth, a quiet and loving home-bird who values the family and the comforts of home above everything; and Amy, an ambitious and vain young thing. The story follows these four girls as they grow into adulthood, exploring the challenges they face as they overcome a character flaw on their way to becoming women.
The book has a bit more God in than the film, and there are plenty of references to placing your faith in the "friend" who will always be there to support you. At first you wonder whether this has much relevance in such a secular society as we live in today, but it is done in such a gentle way that you don't feel preached at. Instead I found the book resonating with me. It isn't at all about being perfect, but about doing your best to improve yourself, about the importance of a loving home and family, about being valued for who you are and not what you have. In my opinion these are messages we could all do with hearing a bit more often to lessen the effect of the constant bombardment of television commercials telling us that we need this item or that, or to look this way or that in order to achieve success and happiness.
Friday, 8 October 2010
So you have a young toddler... the weather is closing in and you are beginning to feel like hibernating... a whole day indoors and your home becomes a wreck as a whirling dervish of a toddler creates mayhem, just out of boredom. Toddlers need activity and stimulation.
So what can you do with them to get out of the house? We try to get out of the house at least once every day, even if only for an hour or two. In the morning we go swimming or shopping or to a class or on a trip, either before the morning nap (he sleeps in the car on the way) or straight after it. In the afternoon we have a longer nap and then walk the dog and sometimes do a bit of grocery shopping before getting dinner ready. Here are some ideas:
1. Swimming - we go once a week. You don't have to pay for an expensive class, just go and have fun with your toddler in the water and build up their confidence.
2. Library - here in the UK libraries are great places for little ones. As well as allowing you to borrow a good selection of books for your children, many also offer "story sacks" to borrow and run free rhyme time or story time sessions for little ones. some also have a selection of toys and some cushions for playing or a story.
Sunday, 3 October 2010
Yes, I'm very proud of these two dolls.
The one on the left is Knitted Bert. I made him, three different outfits of clothes and a coat, hat, scarf and gloves for my Little C's 1st birthday this summer.
The one on the right is Knitted Roberta. She went, with just the one outfit, to my niece Baby B for her 1st birthday. I've just realised that my newest niece is also a baby B, so I'll have to come up with a way of telling them apart on this blog... how about Baby B for the one year old, and Little B for the very newest one?
Anyway, so far Bert is occasionally man-handled by Little C, but no interest in changing his clothes or anything yet. Apparently Roberta is on top of Baby B's wardrobe for fear of small hands damaging her hair... I do hope they get played with!
Saturday, 2 October 2010
I'm a member of a parenting web forum. One recent thread asked this question and I couldn't resist answering it, as there is so much stuff out there to buy. Parenthood is big business! I feel very strongly that you can get by on a lot less than the shops will try to convince you. Here is my quite long reply to the thread!
Firstly - hold off buying much until after Christmas, as by then you'll have more of an idea what people are planning to buy for you, hand down, lend you etc. and whatever you do need you can get in the sales.
Secondly - and importantly... there is an absolute mountain of stuff out there being marketed for new mums and believe me you don't need most of it. Just because they sell it, doesn't mean it is necessary! Don't be too proud to get second hand and hand-me-downs, or to make do, make creatively or borrow - most of the stuff you need in the early days you won't use for very long and your baby really doesn't care that it was used by his/her cousin first or was from a second hand shop.
Travel - you need something to transport your baby in. A decent car seat - new is important here (and I recommend 0+1 stage as it lasts from newborn to 4 so you don't need another one for a while), and something to walk around with, I used a Maclaren pushchair which fully reclines (so again will last newborn until it's no longer required as they are walking) and a ring sling.
Sleeping - a moses basket or similar is good for when they are in your room with you (don't buy one new - either borrow or go second hand) and then a cot. A new mattress for the cot is important. At least 2 cellular blankets and at least 2 sheets. You don't need different blankets for the moses basket and cot - just get the big ones and fold or drape over the sides of the basket. Also pillow cases make good sheets for moses basket, and old unused adult sheets can be cut down and hemmed for use in cot. You don't need to go mad decorating the nursery - baby won't care as long as it is warm and there is somewhere safe and comfy to sleep. Home made mobiles and decorations will save you a fortune and are a good way to spend time while waiting for baby to arrive!